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The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri pertama kali gue denger waktu melayani pembeli di Kutukutubuku.com. Dia beli buku impornya yang gue pegang dengan tangan gue sendiri waktu wrapping. Namun kala itu penasaran hanya bisa dipendam aja.

1,5 tahun kemudian, saat akan pergi liburan dan sedang sibuk cari-cari buku di perpustakaan Kutukutubuku.com, buku ini tiba-tiba tergenggam begitu aja. Oke, buku ini telah memilih takdirnya (hehe).

The Namesake adalah sebuah sebuah biografi keluarga yang dikemas dengan hangat dan menyentuh pembacanya. Sepasang keluarga baru India di Amerika memberi nama anaknya dengan nama Rusia, Gogol. Sekilas sepertinya klise dan biasa. Namun nama yang tak lazim, yang harus dibawa anaknya seumur hidup, ternyata memiliki dampak besar terhadap si Anak yang mempengaruhi caranya bersikap dan mengambil keputusan.

Tidak ada klimaks yang benar-benar klimaks dan konflik yang benar-benar konflik di buku ini. Semua naik turun dengan seimbang selama penceritaan. Namun kita tak dibiarkan bosan dan tak pernah bisa berhenti membalik lembaran-lembaran buku ini.

Ini adalah salah satu buku dengan tema keluarga yang pertama yang pernah gue baca. Sekarang juga lagi baca buku impor tentang keluarga, and I definitely will share it later. Beli Makna Sebuah Nama - The Namesake 15% OFF di Kutukutubuku.com.

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Zeke and The Popo is one of the bands that I wanted to see at the Jakarta Rock Parade. Yes, I managed to catch them and next to  'This Mighty Love', 'Menu' caught my ears. I must say, Zeke just doesn't stop making all these brilliant tunes for a stormy week.

Yes, it's that bleak.

photo credit: CarbonNYC

It's started with a big dream.
We started it together.
But then we grew apart.
You choose the other path.
And I'm not in the plan.
It's heartbreaking but still...
I should let you go.

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yey! indah won! 1st place. hehhee. thank you ganks for your support. hehehhe.

Although we typically post on Team Vox to let you know about things that are going on with Vox (to, uh, state the obvious), once in a while, we like to let you know about other cool things that are happening around the blogosphere. And we think the idea of four hilarious mommy bloggers traveling across the U.S. on their way to the BlogHer '08 conference - all the while blogging and video blogging the journey - is one trip you will not want to miss.

Four adventurous bloggers from the Silicon Valley Moms Group were selected to participate in the Summer Road Trip '08 and blog about their travels, hotel stays, media appearances, time away from their families, and life on the road. Six Apart helped them partner up with General Motors, who provided the blogging mommies with a Chevy Tahoe Hybrid SUV to help make their journey comfy, safe, and a little more green.

In case you're not familiar with them, SV Moms is a group of over 200 bloggers who showcase the ups, downs, outrages, struggles, victories, and everyday humor of motherhood. There are currently nine regional and demographically tailored sites that give mothers from D.C., New Jersey, the Deep South, Rocky Mountains, L.A., and Silicon Valley a powerful voice and sense of camaraderie across the country. Whether you're a mother, a child, or just a person who enjoys a good blog, you'll really love reading the words of these amazing women.

The moms buckled into their Chevy Tahoe Hybrid SUV on July 11th and even got an encouraging message from Katie Couric to kick things off! They are currently somewhere in the middle of America making their way to San Francisco where they'll attend an SV Moms Group Party, as well as BlogHer '08.

You do not want to miss these entertaining and irreverent bloggers -- or their spontaneous contest giveaways! -- as they blog from the road. Experience the journey at MomRoadTrip.com.

And let us know about your summer road trip - or plane/boat/bus trip - in the comments! (I like to live vicariously.)

~daisy

Nggak ada sih sebenarnya yang namanya pedoman itu. Hidup itu kan pilihan. Mau senang atau susah, kita sendiri yang pilih dan nggak tergantung dengan variabel lain seperti harta, jabatan, pasangan, dll. Kalau keadaannya susah gimana? Ya dibuat senang. Positive thinking aja.

Kemarin bertemu dengan seseorang yang sangat sopan dan ramah tapi juga sedang sangat tertekan. Hidup susah. Penghasilan pas-pasan. Kebutuhan menggunung. Pusing kepala. Keluhnya. Ia juga menceritakan beberapa orang lain yang juga mengeluh tentang hidup yang semakin susah di Jakarta.

Ia diam. Seperti menunggu saya gantian berbicara, mengeluarkan keluhan yang sama. Tapi saya tidak berbicara apa-apa. Kecuali beberapa kata-kata motivasi dan tips trick seputar peluang usaha mobile  salon yang mungkin bisa dijalankan istrinya untuk menambah penghasilan. Tak lupa menitipkan buku saya, siapa tahu anaknya yang paling besar (SMA kelas 3) atau bahkan ia sendiri, bisa mulai berjualan online.

Mungkin saja, ia telah sekian lama terperangkap dalam pikirannya. Pikiran akan hidup itu susah, dan tidak ada yang bisa dilakukan untuk melawannya. Harus tetap di tempat, lengket dalam rutinitas yang katanya paling aman.

Soal mengeluh, saya benar-benar nggak punya alasan untuk mengeluh.

Jakarta Macet? Ya tinggal tidur. Kudu nyetir! Ya enjoy aja denger radio.

Duit kurang? Ya cari lagi. Bisanya nulis, ya nulis. Bisanya dagang, ya dagang. Bisanya bikin web, ya bikin web.

Muka gosong? Ya paling nggak itu bukti kalo baru pulang dari liburan.

Badan Gendut? Ya tinggal pilih baju yang menguruskan.

Client Bawel? Ya nyengir.

Belum punya Rumah? Ya nabung or ngontrak dulu.

Belum kawin? Ya minta kawin.

See... dengan positive thinking, sama sekali tidak ada alasan untuk mengeluh. Latihan yuk! Besok, canangkan sebagai Hari Bebas Keluh. Ditunggu cerita serunya! :)

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If you do attend the meetup, have a great time and please take lots of pictures and send them to me so I can post them in Team Vox for everyone to see!

Thank you so much to Scott for organizing this meetup. Wish I could be there!

~daisy

The first time I saw beautiful beach of Belitung Islands in Mr. Sindhiarta Mulya's MP, I immediately amazed. I contacted my travel buddies (Mery and Angel) and we're agreed to plan a trip to Belitung. We made phone calls to the person who might have known much about Belitung and decided that June or July would be the perfect month to visit Belitung. And, my oh my, it's just the right time. They say it was peak season, but no one's around. We know the plane was packed and the hotel was fully booked. But in the soothing beach, we haven't seen anyone. So, we decided that, this might be our personal paradise. A hidden paradise.

It took us just a fast 45 minutes to get us from Jakarta to Tanjung Pandan. We flew by Sriwijaya Air (IDR 1.100.000 return) that has a big plane (Boeing 737-200) and good service.

A driver picked us at the airport (IDR 1.200.000 2 days, 1 airport pickup, food and tip). His name is Pak Untung and he's very easy going and kind. We like him.

We were craving for some local food for breakfast, so, Pak Untung drove us to the nearest place to eat. He then introduced us to Belitung's Noodle (Mie Rebus Belitung). It's a tasty noodle, we loved it so much!

Then we're off to Manggar area where we could go to have some coffee. But before that, we stop at the legendary school of Indonesia's best selling author, Andrea Hirata, in Gantong area. Andrea Hirata wrote Laskar Pelangi, semi-autobiography book, as a tribute for his devoted teacher and Laskar Pelangi friends in a very small elementary school in Belitung. I was so inspired by his book and I wish someday I could visit his school and commemorated Andrea Hirata and his Laskar Pelangi friend's brave heart. God hear my thought and granted my wish. Alhamdulillah, thank you Allah.

Earlier, Pak Untung showed us the path where Laskar Pelangi used to walk to school. Gosh. It's like 20 minutes driving from there to school! I can't imagine how those little feet walking back and forth everyday.

And if you asked me did I meet Mira Lesmana, Cut Mini, etc who happened to take some motion pictures for their upcoming 'Laskar Pelangi' movie, the answer is NO. That's because they has just left Belitung when we arrived hehe.

After having fun with some grass outside the school, we immediately go to our next destination: Manggar. We stop at a cafe in Tanjung Kelayang and have a cup of coffee by the pond.

Can't wait to see the beach, we asked Pak Untung to drove us to our hotel, The Villa Lor-In, in Tanjung Tinggi. It took us around 45 minutes from Manggar to Tanjung Tinggi (30 minutes from the airport).

And when the first time we see the beach line in front of the hotel, our jaw dropped. It was totally, THE BEST BEACH we've ever seen in our whole life. I've seen a lot of beach from all over Indonesia + Phuket in Thailand, and THIS IS STILL THE BEST BEACH I've ever seen in my whole life! The sand was bright white and the sea has beautifully combined turquoise + blue color. Plus, no one's around! Where's everybody?? It's peak season they said!! :D

We were jumping up and down, can't wait to touch the beautiful beach. But we must first check-in to our hotel. We booked  a room with 2 bed and a beautiful outdoor bathroom (hehe) for only IDR 350.000 per night (it's okay to have as many people as you want in the room).

We immediately rushed to follow Pak Untung. He brought us to the seafood restaurant. We ordered seafood like crazy and ended up splurge IDR 250.000 on this very first lunch. We always made the same mistake again haha. I kind of surprised with the price, I thought the fish price would be cheap as they live near the sea. But somehow, the raise of oil has a huge impact on the fisherman and the fishes they sell.

After having seafood that enough to feed 100 polar bear, we finally managed to take a walk near the restaurant. We found huge rocks and start climbing it. Yes, the mal-rats-and-shopaholic-queens were climbing the rocks. Mery lead the way and we ended up having the best view that looks like coming from a postcard and taking as much crazy-high-fashion pictures as we can.

After satisfied ourself with the view, we went back to hotel and literally running to the beach. It was a very... very... calm beach. Mery and Angel were floating in their back and since I can't swim (confession), I must learn one or two techniques from them. And it works... I was floating and watching the blue sky and the friendly white clouds. It's like I was floating in cloud 9!! We watch the sunset as we sleep comfortably in the soft white sands. And sometimes we read our books. Most of the time, we used it as a pillow.

At night, we had dinner at Pak Untung's house in Tanjung Pandan, 30 minutes from the hotel. His wife selling a yummy tekwan and we'd like to try. We also went shopping in town because no one selling anything near our hotel. We prepared some mineral water and snacks. We also bought some local food for family and friends in Jakarta. I spend IDR 100.000 that night.

The next day, we wake up early and went straight to the beach. Mery tried to jog and Angel's tried to meditate. I enjoyed my time with my camera capturing the sun behind the coconut trees. But I'm not alone, there were 4 photographers gather and taking pictures around me with their complicated tools.

We had breakfast and Pak Untung picked us up. We're going to Lengkuas Island and Burung Island today. We rent a boat for IDR 500.000 to go to those two islands.

It took us 30 minutes to get to Lengkuas Island. The view in the journey was just amazing. I remember that we also use a boat in Phuket, and the view was also amazing, but that's it. We can't really touch the beauty. But in Belitung Islands, we can be part of the beauty and having it as long as we wanted!

The boat can't go further to Lengkuas Island's sand and I must wet my Levi's jeans through the sea to get there. There's a vintage lighthouse in the center of the island and less than 7 people stayed around the lighthouse.

We climbed the 18 floors of spiral staircases of the lighthouse and enjoyed a very beautiful view from the top.

We bring our own lunch because no one really sell anything there in the island, and we really enjoying our nap there. We then gave the lighthouse family (Ha!) IDR 30.000 before we left.

We're off to Burung Island. Another amazing island of Belitung! We were jumping, sleeping, and rolling around like crazy.

Then suddenly a cute chubby cat came in our way. It's really weird since nobody live in Burung Island. He's very healthy and friendly, following us everywhere we go. He even rolling around with us. I don't know who the cat was, but he was giving us a sad look when we left him. But he didn't try to chase us. He just watched us for a minute and go back to the forest. Awww :(

At the hotel, we float and swim in the sea in front of our room and eat our dinner while watching the sunset waving down the clouds.

Then we spend the whole night reading our books. I'm having a good time with my book, The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri. I will try to finish it as soon as possible :p

Finally, on Monday morning, we had to say goodbye to the beautiful island. The civilization calling our names over and over again, we must get back as soon as possible hehe. But the memory remains and will always kept in our hearts.

I'm having a plan to make some kind of Laskar Pelangi tour on Belitung for the book lovers. If you're interested please contact me :)

For 316 photos of Belitung Islands - Hidden Paradise, please check my Flickr

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plan dah lama. tapi hari ni baru sempat. we brought indah to the mata atas malaysia. nasib, tak beratur panjang. ingatkan kene beratur... clear je...

mula-mula indah takut nak naik. tapi lelama nak melompat-lompat dia atas cabin tu. kita yang takut.